Dark Secrets

The one you promise to never tell a soul
The reason you won't
Is because you're afraid
You're afraid of how people will judge you
You're afraid you will lose everything that matters to you
You're afraid you will lose family and friends
If you don't
You will continue to live a lie
If you don't
You will never gain the freedom you crave
If you don't
You will never be truly happy
So the real question is
Who are you really?